Thursday, April 28, 2005

... r.e.g.r.e.t.s ...

have u ever laid awake in bed at night thinking about the past? bringing up bittersweet memories, some of which u sometimes wish either never happened or u never remembered? memories that make u sad and cry... even though, if u looked at it on another point of view, u would have laughed and smiled?

have u ever laid in bed in ur darkened room and wondered what life would have been like if ... ? and what life would be like in the future? regretting the things u have done or have said? wondering "what if i had done this" or "what if i said that"?

a fren told me to do things and live life with "no regrets". we should look at all the things that have happened as lessons of life and smile, not cry and regret. i mean, shouldn't we be happy with the way we have lived our life and not regretting it? why do we always seem to think that the grass is greener on the other side even though we have been to the other side and we discover that it is no greener than the side we were originally on? why is it that when we know that we should not be regretting, we still do it?

sure, it is easy to say "no regrets"... but how many people seriously lived their lives without any regrets??? who can dare say that they never, in any point of their lives, regretted anything? if there seriously is such a person, i would like to meet u. i want to know and learn how u not regret A SINGLE MOMENT of ur life.

...burnt and trying to walk away from regrets...

3 comments:

Unknown said...

giler jiwang nie... kejap2 havin fun go picnic sunderland all, pastu emo giler dok dlm bilek gelap main nostalgia. chaittt. rilekler beb. who amongst us have no regrets? ish.. pigi main salji la lu. senyum sket.

YU JIAN said...

True that. I second the Wolf. You see, my dear Dilys ... I'm gonna tell you what Gandalf told lil gay Frodo a long time ago ... in the mines of Moria in Middle Earth ...

....

Actually I forgot what he said lar ...

but I know the meaning is ... don't think about why you're here...what if this, what if that....the things you've done before and what you've not ... juz TAKE the moment that it is given to you ... and deal with it ... wif a smile ...

Ok, I think my version is even better than Gandalf's. If they had used my line in the movie, it wouldn't be so GAYYY .. but let's not digress.

Juz fugghedaboutit.

Anonymous said...

S M I L E

You have a lovely smile. So keep on smiling!